Way I see it, if you're a true fan you shouldn't be bothered by any mockery you and crap you take cause you're a Chrono fan. No mocks me for it or unfortunately even knows what it is, but if they did I wouldn't have a problem, cause I like it. That's the difference between certain types of fans.
RPGs tend to have loyal fans no matter what. Whatever's the latest hype like Twilight though, no matter how greatly a fan they may claim to be, they aren't. It's just the "in" thing. one girl I know is constantly non stop made fun of for being Twilight obsessed. If she were truly a fan, she'd be able to say "I like Twilight, so what?" Instead she gets pissed off and runs off crying slowly turning rage into sorrow. An emotional wreck like the characters in her story.
I just came up with a theory that has nothing to do but I have to post it before I forget it, perhaps fans have the stability of their characters. We can deal with this stuff cause our characters are stronger. I'd have to do a study, get someone who's a fan of a series with very weak characters... Death Of A Salesman fan?
Anyways, if they bring up gay again just tell them "Alright I get it, you don't like Flea! Now what ele about the game don't like?"
"The soundtrack is horrible! It's gay!"
"Alright, how many times are you going to bring up Flea?"