First, of course, is the silliness of saying that a specific individual's gender identity could itself be bigoted. Given that you are not complaining that George Washington was a male president, or that Caesar Augustus is a male emperor, I suspect that your objection is not so simple.
I agree. There have been female leaders in history, crowned or otherwise; Cleopatra, Queen Elizabeth, Jean D'arc (real display of feminist power here), Marie Antoinette, to name a few.
And of course, to note, Mary and the various female saints seem to have done little to affect the gender biases of the Church.
This is going to come to a shock to most non-Christians (and maybe even some Christians), but God's people are referred to as
female, not male. In the Old Testament, God's people are the "daughters of Zion." Whenever referred to by sex, the Church is described as "she" or "her." In addition, the Greek word for "church" is a feminine noun:
*Courtesy of
King James Greek Lexicon*
ecclesia (ekklēsia) εκκλησία (Strong's #G1577) 1. a gathering of citizens called out from their homes into some public place, an assembly
1. an assembly of the people convened at the public place of the council for the purpose of deliberating
2. the assembly of the Israelites
3. any gathering or throng of men assembled by chance, tumultuously
4. in a Christian sense
1. an assembly of Christians gathered for worship in a religious meeting
2. a company of Christian, or of those who, hoping for eternal salvation through Jesus Christ, observe their own religious rites, hold their own religious meetings, and manage their own affairs, according to regulations prescribed for the body for order’s sake
3. those who anywhere, in a city, village, constitute such a company and are united into one body
4. the whole body of Christians scattered throughout the earth
5. the assembly of faithful Christians already dead and received into heaven
Put yourself in their position for a minute here. If men had made up the Bible and were as oppressive to women as some allege them to be (I won't say any names), wouldn't such authors most likely have made the church male in composition?