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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #15 on: February 21, 2011, 11:53:58 pm »
Congrats Mr. Lance! I've been to my cousin's wedding and sister's wedding ( which was half a year ago, wow ) and remember, enjoy what you have no matter what pulls you through.

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #16 on: February 22, 2011, 12:03:31 am »
Thanks everyone! n.n

I've known her for nearly five years now, and we've been dating one and a half. This may seem soon to a lot of people, but I feel it's the right time because we had a great relationship as just friends. It really means the world to me knowing that I am going to be with my best friend for the rest of my life.

I'm also grateful that neither of us believe in divorce. I've always felt marriage was a permanent commitment, and so has she.

I also know that we both have our hobbies. I have gaming and game design, and she's actually a equestrian trainer. She;s worked with horses all her life, and she even managed to be a world qualifier in barrel racing! She does help me in designing the CT fangames I make. Hell, she's actually a big fan of Chrono herself. In return, I do a lot of horseback riding and whatnot with her, but we know that those are our individual things.

Overall, I'm extremely excited about this. I thank every one of you for the support and advice. :D

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« Reply #17 on: February 22, 2011, 02:16:35 am »
Congrats, Lance! That's so awesome! :)

Since I haven't had the best of luck in relationships, I don't feel I have much advice to impart. Other than this: never, ever let her forget that you love her. Sometimes, in the hustle and bustle of daily life, we can forget to let those we love know that we still love them... and for some of us, well... it's easy to forget. Always let her know how precious she is to you. 

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #18 on: February 22, 2011, 04:18:44 am »
Congrats!!  Not much for advice here, but all the best!

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #19 on: February 22, 2011, 05:11:07 am »
That is awesome Lance.  :)  It sounds like you and your fiancee are really compatible and very much in love.  And that's really amazing that she was a world qualifier!  It's also pretty damn great that she's a Chrono fan too.  It's always lovely when you can totally geek out with your significant other.

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #20 on: February 22, 2011, 12:25:39 pm »
Mutual Chrono love is always a good sign. It's awesome that you are interested in each other like that!

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #21 on: February 22, 2011, 02:49:51 pm »
Definitely what I'm looking for in the next girl I date. If you're not a Chrono fan, I'm sorry.

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #22 on: February 22, 2011, 05:52:54 pm »

Congrats on sealing the deal with your significant other, Lance.

As such, I offer this up for your enjoyment:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sbqv3MwwVd8

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #23 on: February 27, 2011, 09:15:44 pm »
Always make sure you say "I love you" before you go to bed at night, even if you've had a fight.

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #24 on: February 28, 2011, 01:22:42 am »
Don't take each other for granted. That's usually where couples start to fall apart right there. Other than that, learn to be flexible and stay positive about life, even when things are tough.

Anyway, congratulations and good luck.

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #25 on: February 28, 2011, 11:11:21 pm »
Seriously, a very big thanks to everyone. This girl is my life, and I love her with every ounce of my being. I wish you guys could be here for the big day. (even though I know a couple may actually come. :p)

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #26 on: March 07, 2011, 04:13:34 pm »
congrats, i met my wife at a con while she was cosplaying lucca. best think i learned, be a complete whore in the bedroom, and even if your pissed off at eachother always try to let things go and act like it never happened the next day. shes still mad that i call her grand mother mr satan.

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Re: I'm getting married. Any tips?
« Reply #27 on: March 07, 2011, 04:25:16 pm »
Ah, crap, can't believe I missed this.

Congrats, man! Since I'm too young for marriage I can't offer proper advice. Besides...

Make fun of her. Yeah, keep mocking her but ONLY IF it's in your nature (without offending her). Kinda works for me. =P Girls love it when you're stupidly playful; just make sure not to carry it too far, and don't do it in front of people though. Usually fun comes together when you both can have good laughs, regardless of what's common. If your tastes differ, even better! That way both of you can learn something new about not only each other but also the world. There's so much you could share together, so just grab her hands and show her the world! (Note: when you're showing her the world, make sure you leave money out of the equation; sometimes greed or frustration ruins things horribly, so no expensive restaurants and such,  just places you both can have fun at even if it's dressing up as clowns at a museum)

But if her cheeks are awesome, pinch em.

Can't come there all the way from India, but here's wishing you the best! :P
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