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« Reply #90 on: November 11, 2005, 07:36:07 pm »
im a guy....... one guy...... a judge is one person....... one person.... what right does any one person have to say that a woman shouldnt have an abortion.... if abortion was outlawd then we would have a problem with "back ally abortions" women going to vets or worse winding up with a coat hanger in one hand with a mouse in the other reading a site explaining how to give your self an abortion, not the most safe thing in the world... untill theres a better way allow abortion, since when did god judge you on the actions of others?

and another thing, i am pro choice.... being pro choice isnt the same as being pro abortion, i myself do think abortion isnt the most favorable thing to do but i recognize that it is NOT MY DECISION TO MAKE, their for im not not pro abortion, im just pro choice

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« Reply #91 on: November 11, 2005, 07:55:44 pm »
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I noticed your said "humane" but not "responsibly". That troubles me. We, as consumers, are required to destroy other lifeforms in order to insure our survival. We have the right to seek out sustenance, just as any other creature does, and we have the right to defend ourselves from those looking to make meals out of us, just as any creature does. The trouble is, if we are arbitrary in our slaughter, even if it is "civil" and "humane", we will overburden the ecosystem, drive the species we depend upon (either directly or indirectly) to extinction, and then we all starve to death. Bad. We need to be responsible, both in our rates of reproduction and of harvesting of other lifeforms.


Although this is off-topic, our current ecosystem is obsolete because it can no longer support continued human growth and prosperity.  We need to engineer a new ecosystem, as we have engineered our local environments, to support human civilization sustainably, with the greatest degree of prosperity for the largest number of people.  Nature should exist to serve man, in perfect harmony with man's needs.

I sense a split topic coming on.

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« Reply #92 on: November 11, 2005, 08:01:27 pm »
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I noticed your said "humane" but not "responsibly". That troubles me. We, as consumers, are required to destroy other lifeforms in order to insure our survival. We have the right to seek out sustenance, just as any other creature does, and we have the right to defend ourselves from those looking to make meals out of us, just as any creature does. The trouble is, if we are arbitrary in our slaughter, even if it is "civil" and "humane", we will overburden the ecosystem, drive the species we depend upon (either directly or indirectly) to extinction, and then we all starve to death. Bad. We need to be responsible, both in our rates of reproduction and of harvesting of other lifeforms.


Although this is off-topic, our current ecosystem is obsolete because it can no longer support continued human growth and prosperity.  We need to engineer a new ecosystem, as we have engineered our local environments, to support human civilization sustainably, with the greatest degree of prosperity for the largest number of people.  Nature should exist to serve man, in perfect harmony with man's needs.

I sense a split topic coming on.



hay make it and ill post in it, i think the best way to create our own ecosystem as you put it is domes, just build them everywhere, its a self contained envrioment, we could make a few for the purpose of oxygen generation, pump it in to all the domes and have a contained safe weather sytem, pluse the strength of the dome system will serve for some good protection, heck dig in the ground and build a sphere if we must, just make big highway airlocks and we are set

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« Reply #93 on: November 11, 2005, 08:13:27 pm »
Alas, the poor Biosphere project. We have a good ways to go yet before our domes perform the way they're supposed to. Unfortunately for our boundless impatience, mastering the subtleties of even the simplest ecosystem is years ahead.

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« Reply #94 on: November 11, 2005, 11:30:28 pm »
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Alas, the poor Biosphere project. We have a good ways to go yet before our domes perform the way they're supposed to. Unfortunately for our boundless impatience, mastering the subtleties of even the simplest ecosystem is years ahead.
not entirely, probably just costly, realy most of the problem is soil bacteria which helps plants by converting certain matter into nitrogen for the plants.... it all depends on what problems their where..... maybe ill look it up and examine what kinds of solutions their are.... man this is getting off topic hehe

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« Reply #95 on: November 12, 2005, 12:27:46 am »
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I noticed your said "humane" but not "responsibly". That troubles me. We, as consumers, are required to destroy other lifeforms in order to insure our survival. We have the right to seek out sustenance, just as any other creature does, and we have the right to defend ourselves from those looking to make meals out of us, just as any creature does. The trouble is, if we are arbitrary in our slaughter, even if it is "civil" and "humane", we will overburden the ecosystem, drive the species we depend upon (either directly or indirectly) to extinction, and then we all starve to death. Bad. We need to be responsible, both in our rates of reproduction and of harvesting of other lifeforms.


Although this is off-topic, our current ecosystem is obsolete because it can no longer support continued human growth and prosperity.  We need to engineer a new ecosystem, as we have engineered our local environments, to support human civilization sustainably, with the greatest degree of prosperity for the largest number of people.  Nature should exist to serve man, in perfect harmony with man's needs.

I sense a split topic coming on.


Man master of Nature? Say that to a natural disaster, pal.

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« Reply #96 on: November 12, 2005, 12:55:16 am »
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Man master of Nature? Say that to a natural disaster, pal.


It's not unbelievable that man may come up with ways, most likely through technology, to prevent natural disasters by many ways and means, though that would most likely finding a way to change the way the tectonic plates move, and if "The Core" is right at all, it'd fuck us up. At least we'll probably have the technology to eventually quell all major storms before landfall, and possibly protect towns near volcanos from receiving damage by barriers or sealing them or whatnot. Doesn't account for all volcanos, since we don't know if any are possible hidden (like the movie "Volcano"...a stretch, but who knows?). Or we put barriers over the towns, not around the volcanos, protecting them from ALL these things, including maybe global warming. Still doesn't solve the problem of earthquakes and potential hidden volcanos. And it's damn advanced technology.

But we'll either eventually have the techonology to do all that, or leave this planet for a better one. I don't think it's impossible. We've got very capable brains.

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« Reply #97 on: November 12, 2005, 04:16:02 am »
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Man master of Nature? Say that to a natural disaster, pal.


It's not unbelievable that man may come up with ways, most likely through technology, to prevent natural disasters by many ways and means, though that would most likely finding a way to change the way the tectonic plates move, and if "The Core" is right at all, it'd fuck us up. At least we'll probably have the technology to eventually quell all major storms before landfall, and possibly protect towns near volcanos from receiving damage by barriers or sealing them or whatnot. Doesn't account for all volcanos, since we don't know if any are possible hidden (like the movie "Volcano"...a stretch, but who knows?). Or we put barriers over the towns, not around the volcanos, protecting them from ALL these things, including maybe global warming. Still doesn't solve the problem of earthquakes and potential hidden volcanos. And it's damn advanced technology.

But we'll either eventually have the techonology to do all that, or leave this planet for a better one. I don't think it's impossible. We've got very capable brains.


Proven time and time again that we shouldn't fuck with nature, because we're not making anything any better.

In fact, most evidence points to us DESTROYING the environment by attempting to control it. You talk of controling tectonic plates; I don't really want to think too much on what trouble that would cause.

In any case, we're getting highly off-topic, so I believe this should be split.

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« Reply #98 on: November 12, 2005, 04:33:59 am »
As Lord J said, every creature takes advantage of its surrounding, we just take it to the extreme.
For RD, i meant that what makes a plant more alive then a fetus?
Also, I am now author of ANOTHER topic split, due to unintentional means

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« Reply #99 on: November 12, 2005, 05:40:06 am »
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For RD, i meant that what makes a plant more alive then a fetus?


Nothing. They are both equally alive. Where are you going with this?

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« Reply #100 on: November 12, 2005, 08:31:26 pm »
So...The people that say a fetus isnt alive, are also saying a plant...isnt alive?

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« Reply #101 on: November 13, 2005, 12:32:27 am »
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I hate this sort of ethical uncertainty.  Honestly, I don't really care whether women have abortions or not; I'm only trying to be objective.  I don't really think a fetus at any stage of development has much in the way of cognition going on, anyway.  I just feel that it is callous to destroy what may be defined as a person.

The unborn are unique. All else being equal, they will become human beings, with protection under the law. But they are not yet to that point--loony legal rulings and religious dogma notwithstanding. Nevertheless, we recognize the unborn as distinct from the mother from the moment they are conceived. It's only too easy to draw the anti-abortion conclusion...and so that's what many people do, to the detriment of all women, and the entire human civilization. Your concern is different, a sort of consternation that follows from focusing on the unborn child rather than the mother. I said when I opened this thread that, were it just the unborn child, the inception of cognition is a good point to draw the line. There is no murkiness here beyond a range of a couple of weeks. However, it isn't just the unborn child. The mother has rights too, which religious doctrine has denied them on grounds of their gender from ancient times on into the modern era. Her rights in this conundrum are perfectly clear. Thus, there is no conundrum...no uncertainty. Regardless of the plight of the unborn, the freedom of any mentally competent person to control her own body and direct the course of her own health is, in my opinion, among the most fundamental human rights. The pseudo-human unborn child, unfortunately for the child, is on the losing side of Justice's scale. Your consternation stems from the fact that in this case, justice carries a price. I'm here to tell you that, in an imperfect society, among a mortal people, justice usually will.

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That is why I desire a technological solution.  The human condition, as it stands, is completely unacceptable to me.

Yes, I can agree with you completely on that point. Preventing conception entirely is the ultimate solution to this problem, one that will eliminate the conflict and thus obviate the conflict that causes you such discomfort. (Although I would expect to see, shortly thereafter, yet another religious assault on women's freedom of sexuality, in some other form.)

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It's one thing to take responsibility for your actions, and it is a comendable thing, it is the right thing to do. But to hold another person responsible for your actions, which you are doing if you are having a child you do not want and/or lack the resources to raise, is reprehensible and cowardly.

This raises an important point. Abortion isn't about finding a place to put the baby. If it were, then obviously we would want to put the baby safe and sound into a doctor's arms at nine months' gestation. No. Abortion is about women's rights. More essentially, it is about human rights concerning pregnant women. Abortion is about a woman retaining control of her own body. We each have one body in this world that is ours alone to rule. If a woman wants to gratify her sexual desire, that is her choice--and an understandable choice at that. If a woman wants to avoid the onus of a pregnancy, or childbirth, or child, for whatever reason, then that is her choice as well. It really is that simple. Everything else, every other detail, is extraneous to this core.

Don't listen to the religious diversionary arguments that carry us away from this point. Don't buy into their emotionally loaded jargon. This isn't about "viability." The viability of a fetus to prosper outside its mother is irrelevant. And this isn't about chosing adoption over abortion. Adoption is not an alternative to abortion, because when treated as such it necessarily revokes a woman's right to control her own body. Abortion is about women's rights. Deep down, any opposition to abortion is logically based upon an institutionalized fear of, or contempt for, women. Just look at the corner into which we have backed the religious camp during the course of this thread. They're treading right on the edge of connecting the dots and realizing for themselves--whilst admitting to the rest of us that which we already knew--that the strength of their religion's opposition to abortion lies not in the sanctity of unborn life, but in the subjugation of the female sex.

Having said that, your point is well-taken Radical_Dreamer...but it is incorrect. It is a very appealing line of thought to say that we mustn't hold the child accountable for the mother's decision to exercise "responsibility" and not abort, and then go on to expose that child to a world that does not want it and will not provide for it. However, whereas we may exempt individual parents from the responsibility to raise their unwanted children, we may not exempt society itself from the same, and, to the extent that we lack the social infrastructure to accommodate unwanted children properly, this is the fault solely of the society as a whole. As such, it has no weight in the abortion debate other than to provide an impetus for concluding the debate soon with the appropriate legislation expanding abortion rights and improving upon the aforementioned infrastructure.

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Just for a different point of view, what about the fact that the mother is NOT a clean book, and that the child never had a chance at life s/he couldve had? And that the child has never commited evil?

This is prejudice on your part--or, more literally, pre-judgment. As such, it is logically unfounded. We cannot ascertain an unborn child's right to exist based on a life it has not lived. Sure, the child might become the next Einstein. It might also become the next Hitler. It doesn't matter. It hasn't happened yet. Meanwhile, the woman is right here, alive and very real, asking ever so kindly for you not to strip her of one of her most basic rights...and you're saying you would tell her that you, Burning Zeppelin, are more deserving to control her body than she is, because your values are more important than her values, and that if she doesn't like being turned into a slave at your whim, then she should not have exercised another of her fundamental rights, which is to have sex at her leisure, in the first place.

That's the very crux of prejudice, and that's why prejudice has no place in justice.

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Plus, I think that, me talking from a pro abortionist view, that if a woman wants to have an abortion a second time, and both times were just because then that is horrendously wrong.

A woman has the sovereign right to control her own body. This is not a right that can only be used once, like some free pass, and must then be forfeited thereafter. It is a right that continues uninterrupted throughout her life. If that means she has an abortion at some point, fine. Two abortions; fine. Ten thousand abortions; fine. Each abortion is decided on its own merits; there is no cumulative score being kept.

In your world, it may be irresponsible of a woman to be responsible for herself. In the real world, that's absurd.

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Okay, I've been lurking here for a while, hoping someone would get to this point, but no one has (possibly because of the lack of actual women here). The fact is, Abortion is not easy. Even if you put aside pricing concerns, it's something unnatural being done to the body, and it causes a fair bit of its own suffering. Mystik, if you're insistant that women take responsibility for becoming pregnant, going through an abortion is enough (ironically, I don't see you proposing that men go through the same pain in order to ensure equality).

I think you've bought in to a religionist talking point. And, like most such talking points, I can recognize the source with my handy-dandy Bullshitometer 7000. The fact of the matter is that a professionally administered abortion is safer even than pregnancy itself, and much safer than full-term childbirth. As far as medical procedures go, it's a pretty benign one. To call abortion "unnatural" is to play semantics; the "natural" counterpart of abortion is miscarriage, many of which are handled in much the same way. But more to the point, "unnatural" doesn't mean a whit. I can name any number of "unnatural" things we do to our bodies every day, which improve our health and bolster our quality of life.

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Here's my quick opinion on abortion:

It's morally wrong, but having a law against it makes no sense in society.

If abortion were "morally wrong," as you say, then it would make all the sense in the world to have a law against it. The fact of the matter is that it isn't morally wrong. There's something in your belief system that's keeping you from saying that society has the obligation to outlaw abortions, and whatever that is, even by your own standards it outranks your "moral indignation" at the act of abortion itself. I suspect you are invoking people's right to choice. That's a much more "moral" right than you give it credit for.

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So...The people that say a fetus isnt alive, are also saying a plant...isnt alive?

What the hell are you talking about?

Z, listen up. Rhetorical maneuvers are supposed to be invisible. Yours stands out like the broadside of the Titanic in front of a big fat iceberg, and it's going to meet with about the same level of success. Plants are alive. Fetuses are alive. That isn't the point. It has nothing to do with this discussion. Indeed, if the unborn were not alive at all, this controversy would not even exist. Whatever razzle-dazzle point you were trying to make, you might want to try making it a different way.

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« Reply #102 on: November 13, 2005, 02:40:52 am »
Leebot did bring up a good point, though, that made me rethink things. Frankly, to try to bring up terms against why abortion should not be done, outside of religious absolutes, it's too difficult to decide better options than abortion because circumstances and situations are all different and random. There is no save-all solution outside of simple abortion, for now. And Josh's argument about the mother's rights over the fetus' is valid, too. I agree with both Josh and Gray that we need better technology to handle this issue.

And I'm gonna say this for the last time, since it seems I've been ignored: it's not because they're female. If males were the ones getting pregnant instead, I'd have the same feelings. Responsibility belongs to those who put themselves in situations because they caused something through action.



...and I just had a very interesting thought.

Try this perspective on for size: what if the father wanted the baby to be born? What if he wanted to take care of it and raise it and love it, even if it was on his own? Or even if he didn't want to raise it on his own, but give it to some loving couple who are dying to have a baby? It's biologically as much his child as hers. But noooo, it's her rights, and it's her[/b] final word. Think that's fair? What do you do in those situations? Say "Sorry buddy, but it's her call. She's the one with the baby, not you." And think of this: what if she was the one who coaxed him into sex? I don't think it's hard to seperate legal bullshit from fairness and some basic understandings of what's "right." We all seem to forget that the reasons behind people having sex is not always "because they really wanted to, hoping to avoid the consequences."

But then again, legalities would state that it's literally a part of her, and basically would call it her legal property, making it hers to do what she wants with it. This would say that indeed, all ideas of child-bearing and child-birth attachments go straight to the women. The rights, along with the responsibilities, go straight to her, regardless of how she got the way she did. Will we rule out the men simply because they aren't carrying the baby, or will we only consider them part of it when throwing blame around for giving this conceived fetus the chance for life and growth?

Think it over. I'm not putting forward an opinion on the matter, just presenting the perspective, cuz I don't think many people even consider it. I didn't until just now. All I'm saying is think it over. Put aside all other legal implications, religious beliefs, prejudices, morals, what-have-you.

And now if you'll excuse me, I'm off to return to the North Crater to Master KotR for my final Master Materia and shove it up Sephiroth's ass =)

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« Reply #103 on: November 13, 2005, 04:14:41 am »
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It's one thing to take responsibility for your actions, and it is a comendable thing, it is the right thing to do. But to hold another person responsible for your actions, which you are doing if you are having a child you do not want and/or lack the resources to raise, is reprehensible and cowardly.


This raises an important point. Abortion isn't about finding a place to put the baby. If it were, then obviously we would want to put the baby safe and sound into a doctor's arms at nine months' gestation. No. Abortion is about women's rights. More essentially, it is about human rights concerning pregnant women. Abortion is about a woman retaining control of her own body. We each have one body in this world that is ours alone to rule. If a woman wants to gratify her sexual desire, that is her choice--and an understandable choice at that. If a woman wants to avoid the onus of a pregnancy, or childbirth, or child, for whatever reason, then that is her choice as well. It really is that simple. Everything else, every other detail, is extraneous to this core.


I'm not sure if you see the point I'm arguing here. I am stating that it is wrong for people to have children they are unprepared and uncapable of raising, and that while abortion is an imperfect solution to the problem of women getting pregnant with children that they (and the father) cannot or should not raise, it is still a valid option. To bring the child to term (after not aborting it) under these circumstances is not a moral act.

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« Reply #104 on: November 13, 2005, 09:48:28 am »
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Try this perspective on for size: what if the father wanted the baby to be born? What if he wanted to take care of it and raise it and love it, even if it was on his own? Or even if he didn't want to raise it on his own, but give it to some loving couple who are dying to have a baby? It's biologically as much his child as hers. But noooo, it's her rights, and it's her[/b] final word. Think that's fair? What do you do in those situations? Say "Sorry buddy, but it's her call. She's the one with the baby, not you." And think of this: what if she was the one who coaxed him into sex? I don't think it's hard to seperate legal bullshit from fairness and some basic understandings of what's "right." We all seem to forget that the reasons behind people having sex is not always "because they really wanted to, hoping to avoid the consequences."

But then again, legalities would state that it's literally a part of her, and basically would call it her legal property, making it hers to do what she wants with it. This would say that indeed, all ideas of child-bearing and child-birth attachments go straight to the women. The rights, along with the responsibilities, go straight to her, regardless of how she got the way she did. Will we rule out the men simply because they aren't carrying the baby, or will we only consider them part of it when throwing blame around for giving this conceived fetus the chance for life and growth?

Think it over. I'm not putting forward an opinion on the matter, just presenting the perspective, cuz I don't think many people even consider it. I didn't until just now. All I'm saying is think it over. Put aside all other legal implications, religious beliefs, prejudices, morals, what-have-you.


Nice question. This reminds me immediately of a custody battle between a divorcing couple. In that case, they try to determine which parent is more fit, and if the kids are old enough, which one they want to live with. In this case, however, it would be weighing the mother's hassle of going through pregnancy against the father's fitness for raising a child. In this case, I'd tend to suspect that the father would win out if he were willing to go through a strong enough court battle.

Now, the question of what should happen. As I said before, abortion isn't painless, but it's still generally better than seeing a pregnancy to term. If the mother is still dead-set against this, I'd raise the possibility of finding a surrogate mother, if possible. (I'm not really sure if this is possible at what--if any--point in the pregnancy, but hopefully medical technology will keep advancing, and it could be at some point.)

But then, let's say that isn't possible. Let's say the mother is legally forced to carry the baby she doesn't want to term. There are a ton of societal actions pregnant mothers aren't supposed to take as they may harm the fetus (drinking, smoking, to name a couple). Seriously, what are the chances of convincing this mother of following those? She may even do them out of spite.

Yeah, unfortunately, it's looking like if surrogacy isn't a possibility, it just isn't practical for the father to legally force the mother to go through with the pregnancy. If he can convince her of it outside of court, however, that's fine.