I cannot stand it when people say that love doesn't exist, that it is a lie, etc. Biggest bullshit statement of the year.
Those who say that love doesn't exist are usually the ones incapable of feeling it and are often self-conceited pricks. They take their bullshit across town and scare others away, then they complain that the opposite person was "merely acting like he cared".
What people don't understand is that, more often than not, love isn't about
receiving, but
giving. One who loves smiles at the world and gives things away without expecting any returns. It's about being the tap, not the bucket, and when you're finally "in love" with the world you realize that so many people love you just as much and that's what matters.
For instance, ten years ago I was always the kind of guy who expected people to pay up; if I lent them some money I'd expect them to pay back, and the same went situations, friendship, favors, etc. But today I'm a completely different person. Even though I can't afford it, I'd save up money and occasionally treat my friends to Ice Cream Sodas (I prefer,
California Bliss) without expecting them to pay or throw a party next time. Why? Because:
1) Friends are timeless, and experiences are better than possessions. Their mere existence in your life makes you a better person, so the party is usually as a "Thank You" to them for being there for me.
2) I simply love that soda, and I'm the kinda person who'd force his friends to try what I'm enjoying. Yeah, I'm that evil.
And honestly. Just because someone has had a bad relationship in the past does not mean that love doesn't exist.
XD You're talking about teens struck with their usual anxiety, or adults who still
haven't grown up. Yeah, it's a real frustrating thing about some people: just because one chick/dude breaks their heart they became blind to others
who actually care about them.
Sooner or later these people might find the person they're going to spend the rest of their life with, and then they will feel so stupid for all of their whiny rants.
They usually don't (well, sometimes). It's amazing how they easily forgive themselves after hurting a lot of people. According to them, "Oh, but I was drunk and heartbroken, but it was all in the past, right?"
Bah, at least almost everyone gets through. Almost.