Magus22, thanks for all your great advice
Oo, if you don't mind, what are some mistakes that I should avoid?
You are very welcome.
I was anti-social before High School. I looked up to the upperclassmen a lot for guidance. That was just me. I taught myself by observing their behavior in the hall ways and in the varsity sports I signed up for. I adapted to their behavior, added it to my own, and modified it to fit my personality so nothing was out of sync.
If you feel something inside of you - telling you to "help someone in need", then do it. For example, in the classroom if you see someone close by to you struggling on a question, offer your help. If they refuse it, then alright . . . but if they welcome it, then take the initiative and see what you can do. If you make a habit of it, you are bound to get respect. When you are respectful to others, you will get their respect in return. Make sure you are repsectful to teachers too! That is vital. (I'll break it down in RPG langauge
) > Since you are the new kid on the block, this is the time to level up your skill called
Respect. Every time you help someone out, considering the fact they allow you to help them or if they accept your help, you gain a level. Use the skill points you've earned on your increased level and add them to
Respect. You can never reach a max limit of this skill. The more help you give, the more closer some people will accept you within their comfort zones.
I will tell you about having a "label" put on you or anything you want. If you are concerned about stuff like that or football players or anything in particular, let me know.