It's not just a "male power fantasy," although there is that. It's also extremely anti-authoritarian and totally sincere about it. I have very little patience for even the mildest exponents of anarchy. It's also a movie that paints its opposition as supremely incompetent and inherently wrong. That double combination is poison for my suspension of disbelief. I can take one or the other, or neither, but not both. Not in a serious story, anyhow. With comedy, sure...but Fight Club can only be described as comedic inasmuch as it is ironically bad.