1. When it comes to religion/spirituality, what do you believe, if anything?What do I believe? Ask me again in a year and chances are the specifics will be different. My “faith” is constantly evolving, as it were. While I am Christian, I am not the same sort of Christian that I was when I was 18 (which is starting to be a disturbingly long time in the past). A great many concepts that are generally seen as being important to Christian belief (as these often separate one sect from another) are probably totally uninteresting to the general public, so I won’t go into those (do many people even know the difference between consubstantiation and transubstantiation?). Therefore let me be broad. My general stance can best be described with the following common saying:
“In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; and in all things, charity.”
For what I consider essential, that is nicely summed up in the Nicene Creed. However, I also tend to believe that an essential quality of Christian belief is a dedication to truth and a rejection of any non-essential belief that becomes a hindrance to belief in others. This means that I have an interesting position in religious debates as I am about as likely to attack “religious” stances as I might be to defend others, depending on how the debate goes. Additionally, while I generally accept the Christian belief that Jesus is the only means of salvation, I also reject the notion that only those exposed to one of the gospels (or in general someone who has heard the name “Jesus”) will make it to heaven. Likewise, I reject the reward/punishment nature of heaven and hell as traditionally portrayed.
To elaborate a little bit on non-essential beliefs that become a hindrance to belief in others, this includes the idea of God as a universal busy-body/helicopter parent, God as a vending machine (insert prayer, receive desired outcome), or God as a cudgel (political or otherwise).
Perhaps curiously to some atheists, I also have no problems accepting evolution, I admit the universe doesn’t need a god/God, I acknowledge that theism is not a perfectly logical or reasonable stance, and I do not believe in the inerrancy of the bible (or any text, for that matter). Yet at the same time I generally value logic and reason very highly, and attempt to conform my various thoughts and arguments to such parameters.
But you now know what essentials I believe in. Non-essentials is a much more varied field, comprised of an eclectic collection of random bits of wanderings, philosophy, science, etc that I have come across. As I can’t paint a picture of those with broad strokes, or at least not better than I already have, I’ll refrain for now from further discussion in that topic.
I am, however, rather hypocritical in that I generally have an instinctual dislike of “spiritualism” and neo-paganism (the Asatru in particular).
2. How did you come to believe it?A combination of being born into a Christian family and my own research/thinking. I grew up in a Baptist church (note, just Baptist, not Southern Baptist), yet I definitely was an Arian heretic for awhile, rejecting both the trinity and the homoousios nature of Christ. As I investigated the matter further, I came to be agnostic on that particular stance, leaning towards trinitarianism but generally not finding this essential enough to be worthy of schism. Likewise, I used to be a young-earther creationist, yet my own investigations into the matter changed my stance first to being an old-earther, then eventually to being an evolutionist.
Part of my reason for continuing belief in the divine is the result of my studies in academia. History is a messy, twisted field, requiring a great deal of due diligence and awareness to navigate its waters successfully. Study of history has provided me with two tools that have been most instrumental in my intellectual and religious development. Foremost, it taught me about logical fallacies. Seriously, it is amazing that these things aren’t a required part of everyone’s education. I’m not as familiar with them as I’d like, I certainly fall into their use at times myself, and I’m not as skilled at identifying them as I’d like to be, but this knowledge has been terribly useful. Secondly, History has provided me with valuable perspective. Anachronism abounds in debate about religion, but with a historical background I am better able to identify these trends and evaluate them properly. I thus find the dread with which some view particular aspects of religion to be almost comical in their unimportance or in the held misunderstanding.
As I mentioned before, my faith is always evolving. My support of homosexual rights (including same-sex marriage), for example, if a fairly recent development, resulting primarily from religious considerations. Likewise, the argument that essentially kicked me off the fence in regards to abortion (and subsequently made me “pro-choice”) came from G.K. Chesterton in the form of a book of his that I read… oh, probably about a year ago now. Before that I was undecided with pro-life leanings (oddly enough, most my reasoning is still the same, just with a slight additional that totally changes those I’d be grouped with).
A lot of change has resulted, actually, from the tension of growing up religious. I’m a cautious, conservative fellow. I am quite happy to “move forward,” but I tend to be very sure that forward is a good direction to head and that where I am isn’t actually the better place to be. Which means that even as I was rejecting parts of religion, I investigated enough to find parts to keep.
3. Do your parents (or did they when alive) believe the same?On some levels, yes. However, there is a very real possibility that if they knew the fullness of my particular beliefs, then they’d think I am no longer Christian. I know my brother-in-law questions my religion.
4. Do you believe in an afterlife? And if so, what is it like?Aye, I do believe in an afterlife. Far from being comforting, it is a bit terrifying. I find it much nicer to think our bodies just rot in the ground (or our ashes float on the swami river, or the vultures consume our flesh and poop it out, depending on one’s chosen means of eternal repose). Maybe I’ve just read too much science fiction/fantasy where eternal life is depicted as being full of despair. But then, who is to say that the afterlife will be government by linear time?
As for what it will be like. The best description I have heard of “hell” is mentioned in C.S. Lewis’ The Great Divorce (if he said it or if he quoted someone, I can’t say). Specifically, “the gates of hell are locked from the inside.”
Heaven, on the other hand… that is a bit harder to describe. I just got back from taking my dog to the vet with my wife. My dog chipped a tooth and it has to come out. However, just being there with my wife made the entire situation so much better. I suspect heaven might be something like that; it couldn’t matter less what everything else about it is like, as long as the big G is there.
And of course, the particularly insightful individual might notice that my depiction of hell is essentially the great ostracization from the community while heaven is the great embracement of community. How very much like a fundamentally-social-animal for humans to conceive of heaven and hell in those terms.
I do sometimes get a nice warm and fuzzy feeling while worshipping in my own way, but the most likely explanation is that it's the result of my own mind/body interaction aroused by the idea of doing something spiritual.
True, but just because there is a neurological explanation for an experience doesn't mean that experience isn't real. There is a neurological explanation for why food tastes good, but that doesn't mean that the food doesn't really taste good, or that the food itself isn't real. Doesn't mean it is real, either, of course.
You cannot judge a religion based on sick practices.
To note, this is particularly true of most neo-pagan religions, as they tend to lack any unifying doctrines or traditions. A wiccan in Texas could very well share absolutely no beliefs with a Wiccan in Wales.
I mean...you don't remember a time before you were born, right?
No, but that seems to be a bit non-sequitur. I also don't remember anything from when I was one year old, or all the dreams I had last night. Yet, logically, I know that I was around and experiencing things. There seems to be little to distinguish being dead and having a bad memory.
I'm not sure whether my father is atheist. I don't think he believes in god(s), but I recalled he claimed that he saw a ghost when he was a small child. I think that is what is called "fake memory", like many of us has.
Interesting. If he claimed to have seen President Kennedy (notably, prior to Kennedy’s assassination), would you suppose that it was a “fake memory”?
I find it very curious that we readily accept things that we find believable without much consideration but, when the same quality of evidence is presented for things we find unbelievable, we reject it. Now I’m not saying your father did really see a ghost; I just find it interesting that on this particular topic you choose to doubt him.
This point I make is a very subtle one, but profound. The belief in anything beyond this life, diminishes one's immersion into this life.
Quite true. I believe that there is more to life than my day job, and so I certainly don’t throw myself into my day job as I might if that was the whole of my existence. If this is a good or bad thing, however, is a different issue.
Now you go on to note that belief in eternal life (specifically, life after death, as it seems like you are discarding the possibility of artificially extending one’s “earthly” life indefinitely) fundamentally and undesirably taints one’s current perceptions of the world. Now I am curious; let us suppose for a moment that I did not now nor ever believed in the afterlife. However, I do like to perceive the world “as it should be” in order to guide my own conceptions of how things currently are and how I might best attempt to bring about that utopia. It would seem that this process is very similar to what you are describing, and so under your hypothesis would I still be “inherently less capable of valuing and understanding the universe laid before” me?
If I am understanding you correctly, it would seem that since I do not claim that this imaginary utopia is a real thing or place, it is fine. However, because I “believe” in it, I would be working in the real world to best fit those perceptions, just as someone who did believe in the afterlife would regarding that, so it would still seem to fall into your general diagnosis.
Nothing can live forever.
Why? If consciousness is nothing more than random firings of the brain, it should be transferable between mediums, yes? And if the multiverse is real and travel between universes is possible (two admittedly large but plausible states of existence), then a single consciousness could continue to jump between universes in order to avoid heat death/ a big crunch. And if the multiverse is the result of cyclical brane collisions, rather than one-shot collisions, such an individual should be able to live quite literally forever.
If such a being would choose to live forever is a different matter, but if we have the ability to transfer awareness between mediums, it should be a small thing to adjust one of those mediums to be quite happy with it.