1) making games...way too small
2) also my design IS cool
3) come to think of it this place wouldnt be as good if it were
1) It depends what you're looking for. I know a kid who started up a website of flash games he made and told his friends. As more and more people visited and spoke to him about it, he created a forum that got quite popular. People from schools other than his own joined because people spread it by word of mouth. Now, this is all on the assumption you want children on your board, but from your attitude, spelling, punctuation and grammar thus far, it seems that's exactly what you're going for. The general consensus I've heard from experienced people and owners of successful sites is that you build the content and the visitors up THEN introduce a forum, ONLY if it's necessary, just as this site grew off all the discussion ZeaLitY stirred up (not unreasonably) at OverClockedRemix and even then, the Compendium was the only place that fostered what its users wanted and aimed to become a giant media hub (correct me if I'm wrong, experienced Compendiumites).
2) Again, you're just thinking "I, I, I". You need to think in the shoes of your visitors, and consider what
they want. It's also advisable to get the information, media and site up and running before you attract visitors. One reason for this is that visitors who come and see a shitty, unfinished site will be discouraged and won't be likely to come back.
3) Use the fucking subjunctive. In fact, try using English without fucking up every other word in a sentence. People will pretty much never criticise you for using correct English, but are very likely to think and say you're a worthless adolescent dumbass if you don't. Additionally, if you want a community of dedicated, intelligent users, as there is here, you're going to scare them away if you offer three line, poorly written content.
