an atheist who doesn't blame religion for this
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Hey, I'm not picking on anyone, just was glad to see something else. ^^;
I for one, have come to realise in the last few days that religion is definitely responsible (Not completely, but it definitely played a role) in the sexism issue we have today.
Education. Reinforcement. Savage punishment. Sexism is a relic of humanity's childhood. Machismo needs to be utterly destroyed, and females need to resist with impassioned, violent will. This involves the outright annihilation of several societal cornerstones and traditions. I will be the first person to cast the torch on the tinder, provided Lord J doesn't beat me to it.
Now, now, relax. =P
Education is obviously an undeniable must here.
Reinforcement... Not sure exactly what you mean here, but I assume reinforcement of the education, in which case, of course, it's a must.
Savage punishment? =O
Now, calm down a bit. Savage punishment would obviously lead to war (which would probably happen anyway, with all the proud fuckstick sexists out there), not to mention the fact that it's a bit rash, eh? I think humanity is at a point where if we could actually somehow promote the education on a large scale (And yes, reinforce that education), it would mostly gladly accept. There would definitely be resistance from hillbillys though, no doubt. One of my relatives is one of those "Proud to be a white, american, racist, sexist, christian" pigs, and let me tell you what, he wouldn't go down without a fight, and I'm sure he'd have plenty of allies as well.
So we promote the education, reinforce that education, society accepts, and the hillbillys start their own war. Then we begin the "Savage punishment", but we let our enemies make themselves known first, eh? Granted, maybe they won't even start a war, and all they do is bitch about it, well, I think most people would just disregard them, and you're always going to have a few spoiled factors in stuff like this. I mean, honestly, you can't COMPLETELY annihilate it (Even with "Savage Punishment"), can you? As long as you win the majority, I think it'd be fair to say it's a success.
Honestly though, if you think you're going to see the death of sexism in your life, I think you're mistaken. We'll most likely not see it happen, or even begin to happen. D=
Religion is not a prison
mankind can never evolve as long as we are looking at our lives through the lens of an afterlife
Meh, I stand corrected, to a point. Lord J esq says it a lot better than I ever could in his post. =P
I will say though, that I'm glad religion has played a role in my life and my friends I speak of lives. It helped me get through a very rough time in my life, but now that I've made it through it and seen the faults of my religion, I have found I no longer need it (And quite possibly, never did). I don't see my friends having overcome their problems without it though, and I would have been devastated to lose most of them.
But again, Lord J esq speaks of that as well, and says it very well, at that.
I honestly don't know what I am anymore.
You are better off.
Thanks for the encouragement. I'm honestly feeling kinda, mixed up right now, but at the same time, so genuinely, purely liberated. ^^;
I dont have a word of disagreement to offer. Religion is not the only thing that messes people up, or that is itself messed up. Education in America needs to be reconceived from the ground up.
Thank you!! No, seriously, thank you. About time I hear more people agreeing with this.
In the meantime, you should go for a GED and then take night classes to get a low-level college degree, if youre able. You certainly seem smart enough to do it.
Actually, I just got my GED a few days ago. =D
I'm wanting to get back into school, I'm looking into a few things. I work 50+ hours a week, though, and man, school schedules alone are rough enough, but to find one that fits in with THAT as well, wow...
Even if you and I overcome this, our children will inherit it. What is the solution? What can we honestly do about this? I feel we're at a loss for answers...
The principle of the answer is so maddeningly easy. Only the implementation is hard. The principle is: People ought to be competent to have kids before they have them, and, once they do have kids, they should build a friendly, educational environment, teach them well, and set good examples.
Yeah, that part is a lot easier said than done. Around where I live, people are spurting out babies left and right, and most of the parents are high as a kite most of the time. >.<
Making that happen is a slow, multi-generational task. For one thing, for the foreseeable future there will continue to be petty and incompetent parents, spoiling a percentage of any given generation. For another thing, generational improvements are necessarily slow since generations themselves are quite long. But well go in that direction, both from the bottom and from the top, steadily.
Education MUST play a role. I honestly, truly believe that if our education system was simply more strict on these matters, and seriously, more harsh on punishment (Who cares about getting suspended or something anymore?), then it'd be a win situation.
The education system in this world is a joke, an absolute joke.
Has science proven even the existence of a "soul" or "consciousness"? Does it even approach the subject?
Science cannot prove what it cannot define. There is no scientific definition of the soul. As for defining human consciousness, I know only enough to know that there is a lot of fascinating scientific literature out there. Perhaps you should spend an afternoon at your local library skimming through the latest editions of the various scientific periodicals, journals, industry publications, and magazines. The ones you like, you could subscribe to.
Fair enough.
Question though:
Has science even been able to prove that such a thing (a soul) MIGHT exist? Perhaps there is no such thing as a "soul"? I see no reason to believe in such a thing (But again, I'm extremely uneducated in this matter). We have a brain and a consciousness to go with it, where in the world does a "soul" even come into the factor?
Any criticism against the realitiesthe actual, underlying, objective realities; not our perceptions thereofis essentially a position of solipsism, which is of course a rather unproductive use of ones limited brainpower.
Heh. Well put. Basically, you are saying people need to stop copping out behind "But that's not necessarily true" when it's so obvious that it is?
Europe is an interesting contrast. Many of the nations of Europe retain official religions, semi-mandatory Church membership, and all sorts of stuff that would make Americans cringe, yet it backfired in the end: Religion won, but people realized they didnt need it. Thus religion passed from Europe peacefully. (Except now an influx of Islamic radicals is rekindling the flame
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Wow, I don't think I ever really knew that. So Europe is a prime example of the fact that we just straight up don't need religion anymore. That's actually insanely interesting, and I'm going to do some research on that, now. =D
I always see people realising this, but nobody has any ideas of how to fix this.
Hah! You should talk to me sometime. Sexual equality is my top social passion and I have put a lot of work into it over the years. I have some ideas, all right
The most important one of them all is to reform education in America, but there are many more.
If the most important is to reform the fucked education system, then I'm all ears. =D
I've known many people, personally, who were destroying their lives with drugs, crime involvement, etc. and found a way to turn their lives around via religion. Is this a prison for them? Of course not, they have found something to live for, no matter how stupid it may look to other people, and are happy with that decision. If there is no afterlife, and they have served a life of servitude, if you will, in vain, but they were happy whilst they did it, then who cares? They were happy whilst they lived and most likely died believing they led a good life. Because you personally wouldn't do it that means that it is wrong? I don't know, that sounds pretty unfair to me.
Youre talking about the Crutch Exemptionthat is, people whose shit is so ruined that theyre pretty much doomed, but are able to buy into the illusory comforts of religion and, thereby, achieve some measure of tranquility, vicissitude, and perhaps even happiness in their lives.
You make a good point, but what of the people who live their entire lives in servitude to religion and are happy with it their entire lives? Is this a prison for them?
Yes, a valid exemption. Religion, of course, is not the only such aid open to the desperate, but because of its pervasiveness in our culture it does come up quite often. If the lost can right themselves with religion, then the better for them.
Two notes, however: Those are compromised people, and probably should not be afforded the same status as ordinary citizens. Secondly, and more pertinently, take a closer look at some of those people whose lives were saved by discovering religion, and you will find that religion itself most often played a role in their development or corruption, directly and indirectly, in the person of their parents, in the style of the upbringing, and in the mores and values of the institutions of the environments in which they lived. Much of what is wrong with America today can trace itself to religious valuesincluding the many ills that you would typically think of as completely secular, like Las Vegas. Ah, but a discussion for another time, that is, since I have to go.
The point, then: Yes, its a valid exemption. For now.
Holy crap, you're right, and amazingly, I've made this same argument time and time again (Sad how I've never put 2 and 2 together until now).
One of the things I hate most are overbearing parents. Not good parents, overbearing parents. The kind that don't send their kids to school because they are afraid of the "dangers" of peer pressure, etc. etc.
Or the kind that send their kids to religious private schools, is another prime example. I tell ya, every person I speak of actually in the post you're responding to grew up like this. -_-
Parents literally condemn their children this way. The kids grow up so secluded from the rest of the real world, that as soon as they hit that age where they can make their own decisions, they SNAP! They go insane, experimenting with all the evils of the world they were never allowed to simply out of prolonged curiousity.
Machismo needs to be utterly destroyed, and females need to resist with impassioned, violent will.
Not quite, ZeaLitY. What must happen is that females must gain access to those privileges and virtuous attitudes typically reserved for males, while males must gain the same typically reserved for females.
Aggression certainly has its place, but an armed female uprising (and lets not have the peanut gallery be making hawt remarks here
) is not a very good solution. Perhaps a workable solution in certain specific instances, but not as a general rule.
Education and the availability of social aidboth community-driven and institutionalare the best bets.
Good point. What most people don't seem to realise with the sexism issue is that males are prone to it as well. Our society has a distinct typical life set in motion from the second you are born. If you are a girl, you are dressed in pink, if you are a boy, you are dressed in blue.
Barbie VS G.I. Joe gets it into our heads as children as well.
And it just keeps spiraling from there, more and more extremely.
Our society literally has devised a nearly perfect system to keep boys "masculine" and girls "feminine", both of which are nonsense. Masculine VS Feminine is a system that needs to be killed, mercilessly. As a matter of fact, those words themselves can be killed along with it.
Uh....no. Contradictions in scripture are not the fault of science, but of whoever wrote it. In fact, the practice of science is not strictly required to pick out doctrinal gaffes, just the practice of logic.
Good point, I don't think you understood me completely though. Things that haven't been absolutely 100% without a doubt proven are still going to be denied by people stuck in their ways. Look back at my posts to ZeaLity a while back (As well as others on this thread), it's being done right here in this thread. The blame is placed differently on religion or science based on who is placing that blame. It's a "he said, she said" thing until it is proven indefinitely. Humanity just loves to disagree.
How do you define "proven" then? There is no more debate on the theory within the scientific community; it is considered as close to factual as it is possible for a theory to be, on par with gravity, relativity and quantum mechanics.
If it isn't proven enough to completely disprove the other side (Religion), than it's not an indefinite fact, I guess is what I am saying. I'm not at liberty to say, honestly. I've never actually had to take the stand of fighting against science to prove religion, but people are doing it all the time. Ask them, I guess. -_-
You see what I am saying though? I don't know how to state it well, I suppose.
Look at it this way, it is a known fact that if it is indefinitely proven via extensive fossil records and other works that we evolved overtime from simple to complex, religion is murdered. MURDERED! It will completely disprove the Bible, 100%
Am I wrong in that statement? Or am I just not making any sense at all?
I sure as hell think it's unfair to shoehorn someone into a role based on whether or not they have a penis.
Heh, of course, any logical person does, when you directly ask them that. That's not what I was getting at. I mean that most people don't realise they even do it though.
As I just said to ZeaLity:
"I think humanity is at a point where if we could actually somehow promote the education on a large scale (And yes, reinforce that education), it would mostly gladly accept."
What I was getting at here is how many people just don't care that the world is sexist, or just aren't realising it at all? There are so many deluded people who actually believe that a "free country" really means equality and freedom from sexism, racism, etc. They are sadly mistaken, but in today's society, no one really seems to even notice.
It amuses me how Americans still believe they have freedom of speech. Saying anything that even slightly criticizes the status quo apparently warrants abject censure from the profitmongering, irresponsible corporate whores who dare to call themselves the media. Say anything that even vaguely opposes America's actions or calls its history into question, and you are branded a traitor; this was demonstrated recently in the response to Jeremiah Wright's sermons, which, aside from AIDS being a government conspiracy, really aren't that far from the truth as far as discrimination against minorities goes; America has had an abysmal track record. We annihilated the Native Americans, pressed Africans into slavery, passed the Espionage Act and Sedition Act during World War I, incarcerated Japanese-Americans into what were effectively concentration camps during World War II, continue to levy economic oppression upon the lower classes, and again, have a tendency as a nation to discriminate against non-Christians and especially people who subscribe to no faith at all.
Amen.
If religion is a prison, it is because many of its principles are not applicable to the modern day, because they were not devised with our current knowledge base in mind. This would be more forgivable if religion had a method for self-correction of its scripture as science does; as it stands, Abrahamic religion is limited to "interpreting" its verses. It treats religious literature as divinely revealed truth rather than the philosophical reflections of human beings, which renders it rigid and unaccommodating to new knowledge.
It's not "To be religious is to be dead" or "To be religious it to be inprisoned" but "To be religious is to be ignorant" then?