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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #15 on: February 25, 2009, 03:20:38 pm »
Shallow people do, unfortunately, come from all walks of life; intelligence is in no way a guard against it.

By random chance I happen to know a dean of admissions at a research university. He specifically works with Medical Scientist Training Program candidates (otherwise known as MSTP students). These are individuals who are working to get an M.D. and Ph.D. (in a biomedical field) at the same time. They are supposed to be the best and brightest the medical community has to offer. Unfortunately, sexism, racism, and general bigotry is a drastic problem in this group of people. While intelligent, they are so full of themselves that they are inherently incapable of working in a team (and gone are the days when major scientific breakthroughs can be made by lone individuals). Being intelligent in no way justifies assuming that any female labtech or student exists entirely and singularly for your pleasures; yet these individuals not only think that, because the selection criteria excludes such considerations, they are often put into positions where this sort of behavior has free reign.

As I see it, beautiful people may be the most overlooked, the most invisible in our society.

I'd agree with you, but for probably a reason that one wouldn't suspect. That is, I'd generally claim that beauty, contrary to the old saying, is inherant in the beholden rather than the eye of the beholder. All individuals are beautiful and it is only the observers that lack the ability to recognize it. To offer an analogy, I'm fairly tone deaf, so I don't make a claim that I can recognize all beautiful music; but I can still recognize that music I might not see the beauty in could have beauty regardless of my undeveloped senses. In a similar manner, we tend to be form-blind, as it were; I can recognize that there are individuals that I wont be able to see the beauty in but that still have beauty regardless of my undeveloped senses.

So yes, the beautiful people are the most overlooked and invisible members of society, generally because we lack the refined senses to notice that beauty.

But for how you meant it, I'd also agree. However, there is an unfortunately number of beautiful people who have accepted that invisibility whole heartedly. People see them as nothing but a beautiful body, so some of them seem to in turn see themselves as nothing but a beautiful body.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #16 on: February 25, 2009, 03:36:09 pm »
My own personal mantra, or saying:
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The more intelligent you are the easier it is to justify a wrong.

My father once said it to me when I was real young. He himself didn't mean a lot by it, in fact he probably doesn't even remember it. For me though it has stuck and been one of the largest guiding factor in my life, along with my love of learning.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #17 on: February 25, 2009, 04:18:54 pm »
Let us not forget in all of this that we make the unfortunate dichotomy of shallow/not shallow by saying that to judge by looks is shallow, and by personality is not. And yet this is false. After all, do we not make snap judgements of people based on our initial instincts, as quick as any physical assessment? So don't forget that you do not guard yourself against that by thinking yourself to look at the personality.

In truth, an assessment of beauty can be every bit as deep as an understanding of personality. At this moment I am loath to make this distinction into which people are only too quick to leap so that they can pat themselves on the back.

What it comes down to is that any assessment of someone, either physical or personality, made without having known them a long time, should be classified as shallow. And a growing appreciation of someone's beauty, or even a judgment upon it, should not take second rank to judgments on someone's personality. After all, you might dislike someone for how they act, but those same actions might seem beautiful to another.

It's worth a thought, and worth an admonition for ourselves that we don't pride ourselves too highly in trying to look at personality whilst still acting in the selfsame manner.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #18 on: February 25, 2009, 07:32:14 pm »
Yes, agreed. I arrived at my condemnation of those two people on my Facebook only after being forced to watch their behavior for a few months over the feed.

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« Reply #19 on: February 25, 2009, 07:36:17 pm »
Yes, agreed. I arrived at my condemnation of those two people on my Facebook only after being forced to watch their behavior for a few months over the feed.

Yes, that's different.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #20 on: February 25, 2009, 08:54:02 pm »
I have given up Facebook all together. Just... don't effin' care anymore.

Um... may I suggest we change the title of this topic to something less... profane? Please?

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« Reply #21 on: February 25, 2009, 09:21:38 pm »
I have given up Facebook all together. Just... don't effin' care anymore.

Um... may I suggest we change the title of this topic to something less... profane? Please?

Well, I don't think it's technically profane. Indeed, the acronymn to which the word applies is actually a technical term. As it were, 'fornication under the consent of the king.' Or you could just go all Battlestar Galactica and go 'frak.'

Facebook... I don't know, I find the whole thing rather useful. But my status updates are... entirely unlike the others. What's mine currently... something like... 'Daniel wishes himself to be more as Geryon and be a many-eyed watcher of the wonders of the world. But here he must hold one heart, and look to Thucydides alone.' Oh, I do not all easily into the whole abbrevation and sound-byte culture of Facebook and text messages. I retain a certain pride in my grammar throughout all of these.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #22 on: February 26, 2009, 12:10:34 am »
I have given up Facebook all together. Just... don't effin' care anymore.

Um... may I suggest we change the title of this topic to something less... profane? Please?

Ha. But then it wouldn't have my 300% intensity going on.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #23 on: March 11, 2009, 02:43:49 pm »
ZeaLitY. . . I have one thing to say about you and this topic. . . Youre fuckin awesome xD

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #24 on: March 11, 2009, 07:12:21 pm »
ZeaLitY was once ordered to wash his mouth out with soap. But you know what he did? He snapped the bar of soap in half. Seriously. It killed about 37 people instantly. You do not wanna fuck with this guy. If he wants to throw around a little longshoreman's language, I saw we give him a "wide berth" and count ourselves lucky.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #25 on: March 11, 2009, 08:56:00 pm »
I believe that some people are shallow as an appearance, to hide a deeper more meaningful version of themselves, and the only reason they do that is they fear judgment from other people, so they wear a mask.

I say this, because I am one of those people

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« Reply #26 on: March 11, 2009, 11:57:05 pm »
ZeaLitY was once ordered to wash his mouth out with soap. But you know what he did? He snapped the bar of soap in half. Seriously. It killed about 37 people instantly. You do not wanna fuck with this guy. If he wants to throw around a little longshoreman's language, I saw we give him a "wide berth" and count ourselves lucky.

Really? I'd have thought it would have been more. Hm. Maybe they caught him on a less fiery day.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #27 on: March 12, 2009, 10:46:05 am »
http://dating.uk.msn.com/matchscene/article.aspx?articleid=10326&TrackingID=523984&BannerID=568010&GT1=50750&ocid=today
"Hey, why not lie and keep your personality and lifestyle secret from your partner?"

What fucking bullshit.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #28 on: March 12, 2009, 11:06:16 am »
http://dating.uk.msn.com/matchscene/article.aspx?articleid=10326&TrackingID=523984&BannerID=568010&GT1=50750&ocid=today
"Hey, why not lie and keep your personality and lifestyle secret from your partner?"

What fucking bullshit.

FUCK THAT ARTICLE, AND FUCK THE PERSON WHO WROTE IT.

Fucking hell. "RATIONALIZE SHALLOW MEN! BECOME SHALLOW YOURSELF!"

Why was I born into this hell of a world? This pit of intellectual incuriosity?

I am going to rip the fucking throat out of this article.

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Re: Shallow Fucking People
« Reply #29 on: March 12, 2009, 11:10:32 am »
Fuck, I know, it's not only encouraging lying to your partner, but essentially telling you to reduce yourself to a simple fucking shallow lifestyle.

This is the shit that discourages the growth of intelligence, discovery and acceptance.